Even if an escort agency advertises being foreigner-friendly, using a little Japanese can dramatically smooth the booking process. This guide offers 40 essential escort booking phrases in English and Japanese (with romaji) for your convenience. Whether you’re texting, calling, or talking in person, these polite and realistic phrases help you communicate clearly and respectfully.
Table of Contents
- Initial Contact – 15 Phrases
- Appointment Changes – 10 Phrases
- Special Requests – 10 Phrases
- After the Session – 5 Phrases
- Conclusion & Best Practice Tips
Initial Contact – 15 Phrases
| English | Japanese (Romaji) |
|---|---|
| Hello. Do you have any girls available tonight around 9 PM? | Konnichiwa. Honjitsu 21-ji goro ni aiteiru josei wa imasu ka? |
| I am staying at Shinjuku Hotel, Room 1015. | Shinjuku Hoteru no 1015-gōshitsu ni taizai shite imasu. |
| I’d like to book a 90-minute course at 10 PM tonight. | Honjitsu 22-ji ni 90-pun kōsu o yoyaku shitai desu. |
| Is Yuki available this Friday night? | Yuki-san wa konshū no kin’yō no yoru, aite imasu ka? |
| Can you please tell me the total price? | Gōkei ryōkin o oshiete itadakemasu ka? |
| Do you have English-speaking staff or girls? | Eigo taiō dekiru sutaffu ya onnanoko wa imasu ka? |
| I am a foreign customer. Is that okay? | Gaikokujin no kyaku desu ga, daijōbu desu ka? |
| What does the 60-minute course include? | 60-pun kōsu ni wa donna naiyō ga fukumaremasu ka? |
| I prefer a slim girl, if possible. | Dekireba, surimu na onnanoko ga kibō desu. |
| Can I extend for 30 more minutes? | 30-pun enchō dekimasu ka? |
| Is there a cancellation fee? | Torikeshi ryō wa arimasu ka? |
| Can I request a specific girl by name? | Tokutei no onnanoko o shimei dekimasu ka? |
| Do I need to pay a deposit in advance? | Maekin wa hitsuyō desu ka? |
| Can I make the booking via LINE or email? | LINE ka mēru de yoyaku dekimasu ka? |
| Is same-day booking okay? | Tōjitsu no yoyaku wa daijōbu desu ka? |
Appointment Changes – 10 Phrases
| English | Japanese (Romaji) |
| I’d like to change the booking to 11 PM, is that okay? | Yoyaku jikan o 23-ji ni henkō shitai no desu ga, yoroshii desu ka? |
| I’m very sorry, but I need to cancel my reservation. | Taihen mōshiwake nai no desu ga, yoyaku o kyanseru shinakute wa narimasen. |
| I will meet you at the hotel lobby on the 1st floor. | Hoteru 1-kai no robī de oaishimasu. |
| I’m in the room now. / I have arrived at the hotel. | Ima, heya ni imasu. / Hoteru ni tōchaku shimashita. |
| I will be 10 minutes late, sorry. | Juppun okuremasu. Mōshiwake arimasen. |
| Can we reschedule for tomorrow? | Ashita ni henkō dekimasu ka? |
| I need to delay by 30 minutes. | 30-pun okurasete kudasai. |
| Can I change the girl to someone else? | Hoka no onnanoko ni henkō dekimasu ka? |
| Do I need to call again to confirm? | Kakunin no tame ni mōichido denwa suru hitsuyō wa arimasu ka? |
| Is there a deadline for cancellations? | Kyanseru no shimekiri wa arimasu ka? |
Special Requests – 10 Phrases
| English | Japanese (Romaji) |
| Just to confirm: it’s 90 min from 9 PM, at APA Hotel Room 303, correct? | Kakunin desu ga, 21-ji kara 90-pun, APA Hoteru 303-gōshitsu de yoroshii desu ka? |
| Which girls are available now? | Ima sugu an’nai dekiru onnanoko wa dare ni narimasu ka? |
| Can I pay by credit card? | Kurejitto kādo de shiharai dekimasu ka? |
| Should I come to the entrance to meet the girl? | Onnanoko to iriguchi de machiawase shita hō ga ii desu ka? |
| I’d like to request a mature/younger/gentle girl. | Seijuku / wakai / yasashii onnanoko o onegai shimasu. |
| Can she wear a specific outfit? | Tokutei no fuku o kite moraemasu ka? |
| Is it possible to request glasses or cosplay? | Megane ya kosupure no shimei wa dekimasu ka? |
| I’d like a massage-style course. | Massāji chūshin no kōsu o onegai shimasu. |
| Can we avoid using my real name? | Jibun no honmyō wa tsukawanaide ii desu ka? |
| I want a very discreet service. | Kanzen ni himitsu ni shite hoshii desu. |
After the Session – 5 Phrases
| English | Japanese (Romaji) |
| Thank you for today, it was great. | Kyō wa arigatō gozaimashita. Totemo tanoshikatta desu. |
| I’d like to book again next time. | Tsugi mo mata yoyaku shitai desu. |
| Please say thank you to the girl. | Onnanoko ni yoroshiku otsutae kudasai. |
| Everything went perfectly. | Subete umaku ikimashita. |
| I’ll leave a good review. Thank you! | Yoi hyōka o nokoshimasu. Arigatō gozaimashita! |
Conclusion & Best Practice Tips
These 40 phrases will help you book, communicate, and express yourself with ease and politeness. They are written in 丁寧語 (polite Japanese) to show respect toward the agency or escort. Whether texting or speaking, being courteous goes a long way in Japan.
- Keep your messages polite and avoid overly explicit wording.
- Always reconfirm details like time, location, and cost.
- Using Japanese—even copy-pasted—is a sign of consideration and may improve your experience.
- Include helpful details like hotel name, room number, and course length early in the conversation.
- Avoid slang or overly casual Japanese to maintain trust and professionalism.
FAQ – Escort Booking Language Questions
1. Can I just use English when messaging a Japanese escort service?
Yes, some may understand English, but using polite Japanese phrases helps ensure better service and shows respect.
2. What if I mispronounce the Japanese phrase?
No problem—most agencies are used to foreigners. You can also copy-paste the romaji version into a message.
3. Should I use honorifics like “-san” when naming a girl?
Yes. It’s a polite way to refer to someone in Japanese and always appreciated.
4. Can I use Google Translate instead?
You can, but these pre-checked phrases are safer and more natural. Translation apps sometimes sound robotic or too direct.
5. Will they understand romaji if I type it instead of Japanese characters?
Not always. Romaji is more for your pronunciation. Send Japanese characters via copy-paste when texting.
6. Are these phrases legal to use under Japanese law?
Yes. All phrases focus on legal booking, communication, and preferences. Avoid explicit language in messages.
7. Should I confirm details like hotel name and time in Japanese?
Yes, repeating this info in Japanese helps avoid miscommunication. Use the confirmation phrase in this guide.
8. How can I politely say no to an option or offer?
Use “Chotto muzukashii desu” (That’s a bit difficult) or “Iie, kekkō desu” (No thank you). These are soft refusals.
9. Is it okay to ask for a specific body type or look?
Yes, if phrased politely. Use “Dekireba, ___ na onnanoko ga kibō desu.” Never be crude or direct.
10. What if I want to compliment the girl after the session?
Say “Totemo tanoshikatta desu. Arigatō gozaimashita.” It’s a classy, polite way to express thanks.
